Elephant in the room

Each and every individual has that topic or discussion he/she avoids, even though they know it is something that they need to deal with. They can't get way from it although it is making them uncomfortable.

http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-illustration-2196907-elephant-in-the-room.php

For instance in most black families it is still a taboo to speak about sex, although the parents know that they should be talking about it to their children. But some how they tend to avoid the topic. Most black parents say they feel uncomfortable when such topic comes up. They know that their children are being thought and told about sex each and every day.

The topic is unavoidable...

Our greatest strength is our greatest weakness

Each and every person has their strengths (a point where you really good at) and you have your weakness (where you not good at). Everybody knows their strong and weak points but sometimes your strength can turn to your weakness when you know sure about it.





I have obtained a skill of writing because of the career path I took. I used to be good at writing to a point where a person could throw me with any topic to write about and I would be able to write about it. As time went by the skill became my greatest weakness because I was not writing even short stories and I was not reading more often to copy the way certain writers write.  My writing was not a talent it was a skill so in order to keep a skill you must always practise it and that’s what I failed to do. 


photo source: http://www.sodahead.com/living/crying-a-sign-of-strength-or-weakness/question-2178667/?link=ibaf&q=strenght+weakness&imgurl=http://images.sodahead.com/polls/002178667/2040807861_The_Weakness_of_Silence_answer_2_xlarge.jpeg

The most unexpected consequences of being online

Social media has become the most powerful instrument of communication globally; however there are unexpected consequences when using social media.

Unexpected consequences

• Making a statement against a certain religion, race and gender can be used against you. Make sure you write something that will not offend certain people.
• When you are on social networks you can find people who are not there for the same reason as you are. Some people might be there for dating whiles you there to meet old friends.
• You might find out that there are people who are following you or are your friends on face book just to spy on you (Nosy people).
• When you are using social networks your style of writing changes, sometime this could lead to a point were you can’t spell words.
• You can become antisocial and that could lead to loneliness and weight gain.
• When a person posts naked pictures of themselves people initially know what kind of a person you are.  Be careful of what kind of pictures you post.

• Hooking up with people you meet on social networks can lead to death or even rape. Dating people on lone is a No No…



http://www.sodahead.com/fun/how-do-you-deal-with-nosy-people/question-2662591/?link=ibaf&q=nosy+people+on+facebook&imgurl=http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2011/085/8/7/screw_off_by_neiltherealdeal-d3cjx0j.jpg



Get invites from people you would rather forget about.

Africa's wild

 Let’s take a look at the Africa's wild animals...

The King of the jungle LION
http://www.deshow.net/animal/wild-lions-645.html

Elephant
http://www.packagetours.co.za/tours-by-type/bedded-overland/165.html



Giraffe
http://www.theanimalfiles.com/mammals/hoofed_mammals/giraffe.html

Zibra
http://www.glogster.com/katy29/year-9-are-animals-drama-/g-6mto4k7mln8uirb45739egi?old_view=True

Buffalo
http://pawcurious.com/topic/blog/features/adventures/



Rhino
http://desktopwallpaper-s.com/15/-/Rhino_Attack_(African_Animals_Wallpaper)/





Gorilla
 http://biganimals.com/vanishing-africa/



cheetah
http://goafrica.about.com/od/africasafariguide/tp/Top-10-Animals-To-See-On-Safari-In-Africa.htm



Hippopotamus
http://goafrica.about.com/od/africasafariguide/tp/Top-10-Animals-To-See-On-Safari-In-Africa.htm

Every day is a good day

If you wake up in the morning then automatically is is a good day.
http://openwalls.com/image?id=10827

Every day is a good day when you wake up and in the morning and you feel no pain. It is also a good day even if you wake up and you are in pain because there are people out there who slept and never woke up. People should appreciate each and every day that they get and treat it as if it is their last day because you will never know what might happen in the next minute. Life is short for a person not to make a very day a good day.  

Whatever comes in your way treat it as a good thing even if it is a bad thing. Life is about experiencing and experimenting something new every day, every day is a good because of what we go through good or bad. Treat that bad thing as a good thing so that every day will be a good day.

To make a very day a good day you need to:

• Laugh
• Be cheerful
• Treat everyday like your birthday
• Ignore negativity
• Greet everyone with a smile

laughing is good for you
http://ericburdon.ning.com/profile/rhr

Cape Town is a beautiful city

Cape Town is a must visit city, take a short left if you in South Africa and see the beauty of the Southern Africa soil. If you want to the most beautiful places and friendly people then  look no more just come to Cape Town and see for yourself.



Table Mountain, Cape Town
http://franschtours.co.za/htours.html



Table Mountain -Cable car 
http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2011/03/31/the-rebellion-starts-win-your-own-office-jailbreak-this-friday/table-mountain-cable-car/





                                          Yes, Robben Island is still the place to see...

Robben Island
http://qu301southafrica.com/2012/02/21/robben-island/?like=1


The place to visit is Century City, there is a shopping mall and Ratanga Junction

Canal Walk shopping mall.
http://proudofsouthafrica.blogspot.com/2010/05/shopping-centers.html

Ratanga Junction, Cape Town.
http://proudofsouthafrica.blogspot.com/2010/05/shopping-centers.html

 This is a friendly city and so are the people

The friendly people of Cape Town .
http://www.flickr.com/photos/flowcomm/4159858063/


there is more to see the only thing you need to do is visit Cape Town and you will be amazed by everything, their dresssing style not forgeting the beautiful places you can see.

Cape Town ...
http://www.daytours.co.za/blog/attractions-landmarks/qa-with-leon-ben-lamprecht-weg-travel-journalist/

Feelings follow behaviour



she is not interested. http://www.hercampus.com/love/real-live-college-guy-joe-preventing-awkward-number-request-when-youre-not-interested-him

 
Feeling and behavior determine a person’s attitude towards you. It is funny how human emotions work. One minute you happy the next you are sad. When it comes to love, feelings follow behaviour.

When a person does not want you anymore meaning she/ he has lost interest the person might not tell you but his/ her behaviour will show that something is wrong. The person will start acting funny or weird when he/ she is around, he/she can't hide the fact that she/ he is not  feeling you anymore. The feelings of this person are shown through his/her behavior.  

It is better you tell the person that you have lost interest instead of pretending that you still in love with him/ her.